Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church

 

Father Demetrios Iliou

Title

Demetrios Iliou Oral History

Creator

Demetrios Iliou

Alt. Creator

Interviewer: Calan Halford

Subject

LCSH:
Iliou, Demetrios
Asheville (N.C.) -- History
 

Subject

Keyword: Relevant subject matter covered

Description *

Born in Greece but raised in America, Father Demetrios is the priest at Holy Trinity church. Growing up, Father Demetrios was the subject of many miracles throughout his life which helped him on his journey to becoming a priest. He worked through many hardships on his way to accomplishing his goal, and along the way he met his wife and started a family. He was ordained in Georgia, and worked as a priest in both Florida and New York before moving with his family to Asheville. He loves Asheville and the family he has found in his congregation. He hopes the Greek Orthodox community will continue to expand and that he will have the opportunity to grow old in Asheville.

Publisher

D. H. Ramsey Library Special Collections, University of North Carolina at Asheville, NC, 28804

Contributor

Demetrios Iliou

Date

Electronic Record Issued: 2008-02-29

Type

Sound ; Text

Format

physical description: 2 ¼  page abstract; 1 61minute cassette

Identifier

http://toto.lib.unca.edu/findingaids/oralhistory/Iliou_Demetrios.html

Source

Louis Silveri Oral History Collection, D. H. Ramsey Library Special Collections, University of North Carolina at Asheville

Language

English

Relation

 

Coverage

inclusive dates: the interview covers material from1963-currant; locales: Asheville, NC; Greece

Rights

Any display, publication, or public use must credit the D.H. Ramsey Library Special Collections, University of North Carolina at Asheville. Copyright retained by the authors of certain items in the collection, or their descendents, as stipulated by United States copyright law.

Acquisition

Donor number:  ;  Date of acquisition: May 2008

Processed By

Calan Halford

Interview Date

2008-02-29

Interview Location

The office of Father Demetrios at Holy Trinity Church in Asheville, NC

Biography

Father Demetrios was born in Perez, Greece in 1963 but came to America when he was six years old where he and his family were taken advantage of, suffered from prejudice, and eventually Americanized. Father Demetrios was a rebellious teen until he was eighteen years old and he received a calling from God to become a priest. After working through many setbacks, Father Demetrios accomplished his goal of becoming a priest. He was ordained in Atlanta, Georgia and became Assistant Priest in Clearwater, Florida for four years. He then moved his family back to New York but was unhappy raising his family in the city and so the Bishop gave him the opportunity to be a priest in Asheville which he gladly accepted.

List of Names

[1/29] Father Emmanuel Pratsinakis

[2/0,3] His eminence Metropolitan Alexios of Atlanta

[1/1] Saint Cyril

[1/1] Saint Mexhodios 

[2/0] Clearwater, Florida

[1/30] Hellenic College, Brookline

[1/7] Jamaica, New York

[1/7] [2/1] New York

[1/0] Pereas

Side 1:

 

[0]        Father Demetrios was born in Pereas, Greece in 1963. He was born prematurely and was a high risk for fatality.

[1]       When Father Demetrios was four months old he got blood poisoning from an insect bite on his back and had to have an immediate operation. There was only a ten percent survival rate. At the time of his operation, next of kin were not permitted to stay at the hospital in Greece, so his parents were forced to return home. That night two mean appeared to his mother and aunt and told them that Father Demetrios would be okay, and he was. His mother later recognized the two men as two of the mercenary saints.

[3]        When Father Demetrios was six years old his father was offered a job working as a tailor for a company in America. When the family got to America, the company had sent a Greek worker to pick them up. The man was abusive and charged Father Demetrios’ family twenty dollars per person to sleep in an abandoned house with no doors, on disgusting mattresses. The next morning the man showed up again with two bananas and charged his father twenty dollars for each banana. That day Demetrios’s father took them to the train station. He had decided that they would return to Greece. At the station they ran into an old friend from Greece who told them to go to New York. That he had friends there who would help them, and they did.

[7]        For a while they lived in a crowded apartment with another family who had strange hours. Eventually they moved into their own apartment in Jamaica, which was like the ghetto. There was an infestation of roaches, and one man died there from an overdose and no one knew until the body started to smell.

[8]        Father Demetrios attended PS 86 in Queens. He was picked on because he did not speak English, and wanted to go back to Greece because he missed his cousins. Both his parents worked, and saved their money so they could buy a house in Jamaica. They attended night school in order to learn English.

[9]        He grew up during the 1970’s and became Americanized listening to Pink Floyd and Led Zeppelin. He visited Greece for the first time since he left and felt so comfortable that he did not want to leave.

[10]      In his freshman year of high school, Father Demetrios, did well. In his sophomore year he became so fed up with the racial issues between African Americans, Hispanics, and whites that he dropped out and decided to make a career out of working with his hands.

[11]       He learned the plumbing field and went to work with his brother-in-law. As a teenager, Father Demetrios, questioned religion. He attended church only on major feast days. Then one day when he was at the beach with his friend Nick, Father Demetrios, lost his keys. When he prayed to God for help, God answered. He heard a voice telling him to climb back up the mountain of sand. When he got to the top of the mountain it was as if the heavens had opened and a brilliant light cascaded down and fell on his keys. A gush of wind came and Demetrios had an out of body experience, where he heard God speak to him. God told Demetrios that we lived in a fallen world, and that he wanted him to become a priest and serve me. Demetrios decided to go back to school to become a priest.

[20]       When his parents got home from the wedding they were attending, Demetrios recounted his experience to them and told them that he was going to become a priest. His father was skeptical because Demetrios always quit what he started because he was searching, but his mother was happy.

[21]       Friends started to make him doubt about becoming a priest. His friend Teddy told him about how the great the navy was and he started to think about joining the navy himself.

[22]       Went to York college to get his G.E.D.  He aced the class but was sick during the final exam which was six hours long. He prayed and told God that if he wanted him to become a priest he would have to help him because he was so stopped up he could not think. Three weeks later he got word that he passed his final.

[24]        Started doubting if the priesthood was right for him. Decides instead to join the navy. The morning he was suppose to take his military entrance test he had a dream about an evil presence behind him and there were people all around him praying. He shouted three times that he was not going into the military. When he woke up he told himself it was just a dream and went and took the test anyways. He just barely failed, because of a low algebra score. He got a tutor and planned on retaking the test. Then he started having more dreams. Then the night before his test he had an out of body experience. He was in this beautiful, majestic field. Where he felt completely at home and had no idea how he got there but he did not want to leave. Then these men came and took him to change his clothes and prepare him to meet God. God asked him what he was doing there, and he told him that he needed to go back and finish what he told him to do. So he was expelled and he felt himself falling, and then he turned to see himself lying on his bed, and he fell back into his body, and he was jolted awake.

[29]      At the time that he decided to become a priest there was a new priest at his church. He mentored Father Demetrios.

[30]      Father Demetrios went back to York college and took a math course and a writing course. He made an A in the math course and wrote a ten page research paper on prohibition. In 1982 he was accepted into Hellenic College in Brookline.

[31]       When Father Demetrios went to college he had a naïve outlook. He believed everyone had a calling; he left after the first semester. Then he had dreams went back and left in second semester so then he went to Queens college. He majored in philosophy and minored in anthropology, and only needed to complete his electives in order to get his degree.  Then he met his wife. They dated for two years and then got married.

[33]        Went to Greece and served in the military

[34]         He came back to America and stayed with his in-laws. He finished college and worked as a plumber to support his family. He got his bachelor’s degree and went to graduate school for three years and got his masters. He was ordained in 1998 and has been a priest for ten years.

[35]         Loves Asheville, sometimes he gets upset as a priest, seeing the state of our world, then he realizes that the media is just trying to get viewers and the important thing is to help people because helping one person is worth a million dollars.

  

Side 2:

 

[0]         Was ordained in Atlanta, Georgia on St. Nickolas’s feast day. He became Assistant Priest in Clearwater, Florida for four years before going back to New York.

[1]          Worked as third priest in New York.  He enjoyed working with the kids when he taught Religious school but did not like living there because it was as if September 11th never happened. People still remembered 9/11 but they were mean to each other, and he did not want to raise his kids there.

[3]         He wrote the Bishop who ordained him and told him what was wrong. He told him about Asheville, so Father Demetrios called his wife and asked her to look up Asheville on the internet. She told him that it was beautiful and so they moved to Asheville in 2004. He loves Asheville; he has found a new family in his congregation.

[5]        Most people are entering the workforce looking for jobs with high income. There is no abundance in spirituality, which is why he teaches a spirituality class every Wednesday. We live in a fallen world but we are all fallen so we have no right to judge, only God has that right.

[7]        Only reason women do not become priests is because orthodox arrives from the Judaic religion, and is based on tradition.

[8]        Right now there are about ten converts in the congregation. He hopes that the congregation will continue to grow. There is a Greek festival in September where they have a booth with information about the Greek Orthodox community.

[9]        In twenty years he predicts that the entire service will be in English, instead of the half English, half Greek, but he does not see the community dying out.

[10]      When he went back to Greece as a teenager he was Americanized but still fit in with his cousins because he still spoke Greek.

[11]      Asheville is a diverse city that accepts all beliefs. Father Demetrios thinks that it is beautiful how we all coexist, and that it is the fanatics who cause trouble. Religion can always be abused by becoming a fanatic. He hopes that Asheville will not become completely industrialized though, because God made us care takers. We are here to plant and flourish.

[13]       Orthodox is orthodox. Russians were converted by Greeks. The Czar had representatives from each religion to come present to him and then afterwards he chose Orthodoxy as the National religion.

[15]      Due to there being many orthodoxies, in celebration of Easter the holiest time of the year, they go back to the ancient calendar so it can be celebrated in churches around the world at the same time. The Orthodox Easter always occurs a week after the Jewish Passover.

[16]       Olive oil is used in a baptism as a symbol of reconciliation, because being baptized is becoming anew.